Bassist looking for band

Hi, I play bass, am 44, married, a father, conservative, and looking for musicians (vocals/guitar, drums) to start or complete a band in the Cologne area. Ideally a trio. I'm looking for musicians who are grounded and have their lives together. If we click musically and personally, we should rock, with a bit of indie, alternative, and especially grunge. German lyrics are welcome (but not a must). The goal is to play live and make a name for ourselves in the local area. No covers, please! Feel free to DM me for more details. Cheers!